Is the Coming Out of an LGBTQIA+ Child a Death-like Event for Italian Parents?

Nicola Biancotto (), Gianmarco Biancalani, Lucia Ronconi and Ines Testoni
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Nicola Biancotto: Department of Philosophy, Sociology, Education and Applied Psychology, University of Padua, 35122 Padua, Italy
Gianmarco Biancalani: Department of Philosophy, Sociology, Education and Applied Psychology, University of Padua, 35122 Padua, Italy
Lucia Ronconi: Computer and Statistical Services, Multifunctional Pole of Psychology, University of Padua, 35122 Padua, Italy
Ines Testoni: Department of Philosophy, Sociology, Education and Applied Psychology, University of Padua, 35122 Padua, Italy

Social Sciences, 2023, vol. 12, issue 10, 1-11

Abstract: Parents of LGBTQIA+ individuals often report experiencing an affective state similar to grief after their children’s coming out. The current study explores whether this experience resembles that of people who have recently lost someone close. Furthermore, we tested whether the parents’ alexythimic traits are associated with their grief-like experience. In a sample of 194 parents who experienced their children’s coming out, we administered the Integration of Stressful Life Events Scale (ISLES), the Social Meaning In Life Events Scale (SMILES), and the Toronto Alexithymia Scale (TAS-20). The results showed no significant differences in the mean scores of ISLES and SMILES between the present and bereaved samples by their creators. In addition, in the present sample, lower ISLES and SMILES scores were associated with higher alexithymic traits. Overall, these findings suggest a resemblance between the experience of parents following their children’s coming out and that of bereaved individuals. Therefore, they could inform on how to assist parents in coming to terms with the coming out of an LGBTQIA+ child.

Keywords: coming out; parents; stressful experience; LGBTQIA+ child; loss; social meaning-making (search for similar items in EconPapers)
JEL-codes: A B N P Y80 Z00 (search for similar items in EconPapers)
Date: 2023
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