“Never Learned to Love Properly”: A Qualitative Study Exploring Romantic Relationship Experiences in Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents

Minna Lyons (), Gayle Brewer, Anna-Maria Hartley and Victoria Blinkhorn
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Minna Lyons: School of Psychology, Faculty of Health, Liverpool John Moores University, Liverpool L3 3AF, UK
Gayle Brewer: School of Psychology, University of Liverpool, Liverpool L69 3BX, UK
Anna-Maria Hartley: School of Psychology, University of Liverpool, Liverpool L69 3BX, UK
Victoria Blinkhorn: School of Psychology, Faculty of Health, Liverpool John Moores University, Liverpool L3 3AF, UK

Social Sciences, 2023, vol. 12, issue 3, 1-13

Abstract: Narcissism is a personality trait characterised by selfishness, coldness, entitlement, and grandiosity. There has been much research on different parenting dimensions and their relationship to narcissism in grown-up children, with a notable lack of studies investigating the influence of narcissistic parents on their children. This study focused on individuals’ experiences in romantic relationships, using personal narratives from a popular ‘Reddit’ community for people who perceived to have grown up with narcissistic parents. Using an inductive thematic analysis on 77 Reddit posts, we identified four themes: (i) Strategies and emotions in current relationships, (ii) behaviours and characteristics of partners and their families, (iii) parent intrusiveness in current relationships, and (iv) journey to realisation and recovery. Themes are discussed in relation to existing literature and theory. We add to the sparse literature on narcissistic parents’ influence in adult relationships, highlighting the importance of process from parental behaviour to adult romantic relationships.

Keywords: narcissistic parents; adult relationships; romantic relationships; childhood experiences (search for similar items in EconPapers)
JEL-codes: A B N P Y80 Z00 (search for similar items in EconPapers)
Date: 2023
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