Romantic Love in the United States

Victor C. de Munck and David B. Kronenfeld

SAGE Open, 2016, vol. 6, issue 1, 2158244015622797

Abstract: We seek to advance cultural models theory by contributing to issues related to theory, methods, and testing the external validity of a cultural model. We propose that cultural models are learned as if they were truly properties of collectivities but have no primary existence except in individual representations of them. The shared aspect of cultural models also implies collective awareness of the if–then entailments of cultural models. We use inductive ethnographic methods of freelisting ( n = 80) and pile sorting ( n = 39) to derive a cultural model of romantic love in the United States. From these tasks, we developed a cultural model of successful romantic love consisting of normative scenarios. For successful romantic love relations, a person would feel excited about meeting their beloved; make passionate and intimate love as opposed to only physical love; feel comfortable with the beloved, behaving in a companionable, friendly way with one’s partner; listen to the other’s concerns, offering to help out in various ways if necessary; and, all the while, keeping a mental ledger of the degree to which altruism and passion are mutual. Our model is supported through an examination of two extended case studies. Further research is required, of course, but we believe we have a rather novel and dynamic cultural model that is falsifiable and predictive of successful love relationships. The model is unique in that it combines passion with comfort and friendship as properties of romantic love.

Keywords: cognitivism; approaches; psychology; social sciences; humanistic psychotherapy; psychotherapy; clinical psychology; cognitive psychology; experimental psychology; emotion; evolutionary psychology; social psychology; research methods; cultural anthropology; anthropology; social anthropology; anthropology; philosophy; humanities (search for similar items in EconPapers)
Date: 2016
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