Gender Relations among Indian Couples in the UK and India: Ideals of Equality and Realities of Inequality

Katherine Twamley

Sociological Research Online, 2012, vol. 17, issue 4, 103-113

Abstract: This paper explores young heterosexual Indian Gujaratis’ ideals and experiences of intimate relationships in the UK and India, focusing particularly on gender relations. Men and women in both contexts had similar aspirations of intimacy, but women were likely to be more in favour of egalitarian values. What this meant was interpreted differently in India and the UK. In neither setting, however, was gender equality fully realised in the lives of the participants due to both structural and normative constraints. Despite this gap between ideals and experiences, participants portrayed their relationships as broadly equal and conjugal. It appears that the heavy emphasis on love and intimacy is making it difficult for women to negotiate a more egalitarian relationship with their partner, since any ‘flaw’ in the relationship potentially brings into question its loving foundations. In this way, women tend to ignore or justify the gendered roles and inequalities apparent in their relationships and paint a picture of blissful marital equality despite evidence to the contrary.

Keywords: Intimacy; Gender Relations; India; South Asians; Second Generation; Equality; Love (search for similar items in EconPapers)
Date: 2012
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DOI: 10.5153/sro.2756

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