‘My Bed or Our Bed?’: Gendered Negotiations in the Sleep of Same-Sex Couples

Allison Kirkman

Sociological Research Online, 2010, vol. 15, issue 2, 65-77

Abstract: Sexuality as well as gender can be added to the range of socio-structural factors that influence the social patterning of sleep. This paper draws on in-depth interviews with 20 women and men aged between 45 – 65 years in same-sex couple relationships to examine how they negotiate their sleeping arrangements. The paper contends that gender differences are evident in how these negotiations are played out in the bedroom with women and men in same-sex relationships mirroring some of the patterns demonstrated in the research about women and men in opposite-sex couple relationships. However there are also differences, both between the same-sex women and men, and also when compared with the research concerned with the sleep negotiations between opposite-sex couples. These differences relate to the strategies used in managing a same-sex coupled identity with sharing a bed part of this management.

Keywords: Sleep; Gender; Sexuality; Same-Sex Couples; Intimacy; Caring (search for similar items in EconPapers)
Date: 2010
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DOI: 10.5153/sro.2127

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